The little things that mean so much!

A trip into Huddersfield is not normally a great achievement, but on this occasion as we drove. I tucked into a chicken Tikka wrap  (don't worry, jude was driving! Despite the sun shining she was benefitting from a SNOW day?) I remembered a previous time when I was extremely proud of myself.....

Looking back on it now it seems so simple and it almost seems as though its someone else?

An inspiring woman that I really admire is Kate Allatt, Kate has become a great friend. She has made a remarkable recovery after suffering a similar stroke to myself (google Kate and check her books!)
To help my recovery Kate suggested that I write a diary, which she posted on-line from the charity that she created 'fighting strokes'.
I have found this entry from the 10th July 2013.




A major new development was drinking through a straw. You may have seen the picture but if you haven't here it is.

I tried 2 weeks ago but failed and had to result a cup! That was progress though as it wasn't that long ago that I was using an adapted lighter cup.



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